“Therefore
let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may
edify another.” (v.19)
Chapter 14
deals with functioning in controversy. Here Paul touches on one of the common
problems throughout church history, Christians trying to change one another.
What is it about human nature that wants others to see everything the way “We”
do, to conform to “Our” opinions and perspectives? The answer is found in the
personal pronouns of self interest.
Paul
teaches us in verses 1-4, although we enjoy personal freedoms in Christ, we are
not to restrict others with our perspectives. Accepting others and not judging
them allows others the freedom to hold to their convitions that are unlike our
own. Refusing to dictate to others allows the Lord
freedom to direct their lives and not us.
Paul
goes on to tells us at the end of verse 5: “Let each man be fully convinced in
his own mind.” Meaning, give people room to determine their own convictions by modeling grace.
Refuse all temptations to be a brother basher or sister smasher, as nothing catches
the attention of the unsaved world quicker than those times when we Christians
beat up on one another.
Freeing
others means we never assume the position of judge. How often have we jumped to
wrong conclusions, made judgmental statements, only to find out later how
off-base we were . . . then wished we had never said something. We can all be a
lot happier if we accept the fact that others won’t always fall in line with
our convictions and that’s okay. But, the main thing you and I must guard
against is judging. We are not qualified to fill that role. God alone is to be
our Judge and Jury.
Therefore,
as Paul states in verse 14, “for those who esteem something to be unclean, then
for them it is unclean.” Meaning, if “you” have a personal problem with things
like; smoking cigarettes, having a glass of wine, going to the movies, then “you”
should not take part in these things. But, don’t judge another in his/her
liberties. While these things might be regarded as taboo by some, they will not
keep a born again Christian who loves the LORD from salvation.
In
closing, we all need to concentrate on things that encourage peace and build one another up,
not judging and tearing one another down.
The
Truth
“Judge not,
that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged;
and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. And why do you
look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank
in your own eye? (Matther 7:1-3)
