Speak With Grace

"Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so you will know how you should respond to each person." (Colossians 4:6)

The older I get, the more I see the value of this great truth. That in our speech, we should always come from a position of peace. The Bible tells us that, "a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1) There's just something about a person who is filled with grace. Not only does it manifest itself in their continence but, it also comes out in their voice. Conversely, one who is not filled with grace can be just the opposite and very difficult to communicate with.

In the text above, the apostle Paul is also indicating that our speech should have some seasoning (salt) to it. Meaning, what we say is just as important as how we say it. Again, the Bible tells us that, "The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable." (Proverbs 15:2) Therefore, our words should be spoken in knowledge and presented in such a way as to be easily taken in, accepted - more flavorful if you will. In this way, we can create a more harmonious exchange that is less likely to blow out of proportion.

Finally, Paul tells us that if we follow this pattern, we will know how to respond - He doesn't say that we will win the day - just that we will know how to respond. And in the end, that is all we need do....along with praying that our speech creates a thirst to hear more, to seek additional council and a desire for His spirit in those we speak with grace too.

The Truth
"Walk in a manner worthy of the calling which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love." (Ephesians 4:1-2)