Sufficient for such a one (who had caused sorrow to the church) is this punishment which was inflicted by the majority. Now forgive and comfort him, otherwise such a one might be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. Therefore, I urge you to reaffirm your love for him.” (vv.5-8)
Church discipline can be controversial, but it's intended to bring about repentance and restoration. The Corinthians had responded to Paul's painful first letter requesting that a certain individual be disciplined (1 Cor. 5). Although the Corinthians had complied with Paul's request (2 Cor. 2:6), they were apparently having a hard time restoring the person who had been disciplined (v.7). So Paul urges them to reaffirm their love for him (v.8).
When dealing with any type of misconduct, discipline is only one half of the coin; the other half must include forgiveness and love. Paul’s example here is powerful. Although he had probably been the one wronged, he took the lead in forgiveness and stressed the necessity of the restoration toward this individual.
C. S. Lewis once said, “We all agree that forgiveness is a beautiful idea until we have to practice it.” May that not be the case with us as individuals or as a church body. May we always reflect the love of Christ in this area of forgiveness and restoration. For failure to do so leaves an open door for an all-too-ready adversary.
Is there someone in you life that needs your love, your forgiveness, and the restoration of your fellowship? If so, take Paul's example to heart - reaffirm your love to them and defeat Satan's hold against you both.
The Truth: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)