“Receive one who is weak in the faith, but do not dispute over doubtful things” (v.1)
The law of liberty has created great controversy within the church. In Paul’s day it centered on such matters as: what food to eat, what day to worship, how to be baptized. Today we see similar debate concerning; smoking, drinking, dancing, movies – none of which are clearly spelled out in the Word as immoral.
In verse 14 Paul clearly points out that, you might have a different conviction or a persuasion from a brother (and that is ok) but, don’t push your conviction on someone else, for we all answer to God, not man. Rather, let every man be persuaded in his own mind concerning what liberties he should take without laying a guilt trip on anyone else (in controversial matters). Then live by your convictions, pursue the things which make for peace, and do nothing to destroy the work of God in another persons life for the sake of doubtful things (vv.15-20). If Jesus was willing to give up His life for the sake of a brother who won't eat meat, then we can certainly give up our steak dinner if need be to keep peace.
The kingdom of God is not about division but unity, peace, joy, righteousness, and love. Therefore, pursue the positive things in life God wants you to do and unite the body in Christ. Do not divide it and possibly cause one to fall away. Leave conviction to the Holy Spirit who works tirelessly in the lives of men calling them to a higher way. Be patient, pray, lead by example, exhort, correct in love, and watch as He works out His purposes, and His will in those who are being molded and shaped by The Potter.
The Truth: ”If anyone causes one of these little ones, those who believe in Me, to stumble, it would be better for them if a large millstone were hung around their neck and they were thrown into the sea.” (Mark 9:42)