Befriend Your Critics

Between the years 1861-1865 the United States found itself in the midst of a bitter civil war over the issue of slavery, and several other serious disagreements. By the time the North won the war nearly 620,000 soldiers had perished. There were many in the North who were so embittered that the South had dragged them into such a deadly conflict that they wanted the South to pay dearly.

At the end of the war, a group of Southerners gained an audience with President Abraham Lincoln. His gentle, kind and friendly personality quickly softened the hearts of his once-hardened foes and the Southerners left the interview with a deep respect for the man who had been their bitter enemy. Not long afterward, a northern congressman criticized Lincoln for “befriending the enemy!” He suggested that he should have had them shot for being traitors instead of welcoming them!

I love Lincoln’s response. He said, simply , “Am I not destroying my enemies by making them my friends?”

If you’re serving the Lord –- you can expect your share of criticism and disdain - even from friends and family. However, just keep praying for them and loving on them until, like Lincoln, your critics become your friends.

The Truth
When a man’s ways please the LORD, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.(Proverbs 16:7)